Many people will call me crazy for saying this, but you truly can have anything and everything that you desire in life. Why do I say this? Well, because it’s the damn truth.
What do you think the biggest thing that separates people that are successful from the ones who aren’t? The answer? Hard work. Successful people set goals and know what it takes to accomplish them. They have a relentless belief in themselves and their goals and have a passions that fuels the works required to reach them. And just where exactly do I get off saying all of this? Because I’ve been successful and I’ve been unsuccessful (many more times I might add) in my life and I know what it’s like to persist until my desired outcomes were reached.
Did you know that it’s just as easy to be unsuccessful as it is to succeed? When you develop a passion towards your goals the work no longer feels like work. People that aren’t successful typically haven’t found their passion in life so they don’t understand the difference. When you set huge goals that are geared towards your passion and take massive amounts of action, even if you come up short you still win. The key to making this happen is belief and without it you will get nowhere. So belief + huge goals + massive action=success and essentially whatever you want in life. As the old corny saying goes, if you can believe it, you can achieve it.
My biggest success has been with my career as I have recently been promoted to a corporate position at my company. It took tons of planning, persisting, and personal growth, but I’ve made it and couldn’t feel more alive. I put in years of hard work to earn that position and have realized that it was more than worth it since the rewards greatly outweigh the work. My company is constantly sending a car service for me to attend meetings, travel to the airport, and serve our clients with class, which has exuded my confidence. My salary matches the value I add to my company from my years of studying and persisting. I have a positive group of friends that value success and that I learn from every day. I’m not trying to brag, but show you how I decided what I wanted, worked like hell for it, and actually received it. All because I believed so much in it!
For so long I was locked down by limited beliefs that I let stop me from reaching my true potential and asking for the things I wanted in life. Through my studies I learned from Napoleon Hill that life is willing to give you whatever you want as long as you’re willing to ask. It took months to chisel this into my mindset but once I did, whoa was it profound. Since then I have asked specifically for the things I’ve wanted and gone out and got them for myself with tons and tons and tons of work.
So for Parable number two I suggest that you decide what you want in life and formulate a plan to reach it. Then take massive amounts of action until you get where you want to be. Then, rinse and repeat. I learned this later than I wished I had and wasted many years struggling for stupid reasons. I hope this parable reaches people of younger ages as well so they can start achieving earlier on in life.
Some of you may think this will sound like a bunch of hocus pocus or witchery but one of the most important things I have learned in my life is that everything happens for a reason.
Whether you believe in God, law of attraction, etc, have you considered that one or all of these could be responsible for the events that transpire in your life? Some people believe God has a plan for them while others believe that you attract what you put out into the Universe. I believe in both.
I used to be a very negative person with a pessimistic outlook on life. I complained often and had taken on the role of a victim. I wondered why everything bad happened to me and what I had done to deserve bad things happening to me. I had no idea I was like this at the time and didn’t realize it until years later after I had severely worked on my personal growth and development. I read many books and listened to positive audios on a daily basis. I began to learn every day which resulted in my brain functioning at a higher frequency and mind thinking positively. I began to see the good in every situation which gave me peace of mind and allowed me to enter a new plane of spirituality.
After shedding my victim skin and growing a thicker layer in it’s place, my life started changing for the better and more and more good things started happening for me. I had learned that where I was that day was a direct reflection of the decisions I had made in the past. After that I made one of the most powerful and impacting decisions in my life when I chose to take responsibility for all of my actions and accept that life was happening for me, not to me. I realized my power to take charge to my life and that nobody but me was stopping me from going after the things I wanted in life.
Adopting this new mentality changed my life on every level and revived my soul and spirit and more importantly, peace of mind. All of this bundled together contributed to my mind functioning at higher levels and helped me see the opportunity in things. From there I started advancing in all areas of my life and got closer to finding my purpose. When I was super negative I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. I recently realized that the opportunities I am pursuing now were available to me years in the past in different form, yet I failed to realize the potential in them .
I’m aware of my life purpose and am stepping further into that role every day. I’m so grateful to have taken over a new leave and truly believe that everything happens to teach us a lesson or present opportunity. This may be God at work, the Law of Attraction, or
maybe probably even both. Either way, life is best when you put your trust and faith in it.
Now that you’re on this site you may be wondering what the heck it’s all about. I mean, what kind of name is 36 Parables? Well stay seated and let me tell you.
My name is Nelly and I’m 36 years old. I’ve been through a lot of crazy things in my life that I thought we’re terrible at the time but now I just see them as blessings. I’ve learned a lesson in everything I’ve been through and have developed a strong passion for sharing these lessons with others.
I’ve had many near death experiences, other ones that involved drinking and drugs, and had the pleasure of meeting many different types of people. I know that plenty of people share these same types of situations but I truly believe mine we’re meant to teach me a lesson and transform me into the person I am today.
We all have experiences in life that are designed to teach us and help is grow, yet many people see this as bad luck. No matter how good or bad your situation may be, you are there as a result of the things of your past. Each decision you make influences many of your other decisions in some way, shape, or form, so opening your mind to the possibilities to explain why certain events transpire can be truly enlightening.
The dictionary defines a parable as a story or principle that illustrates and teaches a lesson, so I thought would be appropriate as a title for this blog. I plan to share what I have been through in my 36 years of existence and what each experience has taught me along the way. I hope that I can help others open their mind to learning from every experience and use it as a means to direct events in the future. That may sound like hocus pocus or whatever you want to call it, but I really do believe that each decision we make leads to future decisions. If we learn from our mistakes and use them to find our purpose in life, we can ultimately affect the end result.
Now that you know what 36 Parables is going to be about, I hope you return weekly as I blog about everything I discussed throughout this post.